Vacation, crisis of identity

Sorry I've been gone. I went away for 10 days (without boyfriend) and decided to take a break from writing and try doing some thinking for a change. Will update shortly. The boy has been giving my problems of late, with him its like one step fwd, 4 steps back. He has issues with wrestling with his desires versus what society has told him he should do/be. He also has issues (i think) with the level of intimacy a relationship like this requires. any people out there have any ideas how to get over this hurdle?